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The Importance of Knowing Yourself and the Quest for Inclusivity

The question of knowing oneself has persisted for generations due to its profound significance in human existence. Every day, you are exposed to a wide range of cultural, social, and personal influences. Knowing yourself enables you to make informed decisions, set meaningful goals, and navigate life's challenges with confidence.


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Self-awareness is also foundational to effective allyship. When you have a deep understanding of your own beliefs, biases, and privileges, you can approach issues like allyship with authenticity and empathy.


Self-Awareness and Evaluation

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Self-awareness is the ability to see yourself clearly, to understand who you are, and how others perceive you in the world. It empowers you with a deeper understanding of yourself, leading to fulfillment and success in various aspects of life.


How Do You Know Yourself?


One of the best ways to know yourself is through self-evaluation, as it allows you to set realistic objectives and develop action plans to achieve them. Here are some areas you can evaluate to know yourself:


  • Your values — Values define what you stand for. They represent your unique, individual essence and serve as a personal code of conduct, guiding your actions.

  • Your life mission and meaningful goals — Think about the things that give your life meaning. Significant events in your life can reveal a lot about what you actually care about and how you should spend your time in order to live a meaningful life.


Why Is Learning Essential at Any Age?

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From an early age, we are told to get a good education and associate education with school. For many people, formal learning stops after college. However, learning shouldn't stop there, and there are many opportunities to further knowledge in life.


Here are some reasons why knowing yourself is the key to success:


  • Renewing self-motivation — Sometimes, you fall into a rut when you’re constantly doing things just because they need to get done. And over time, it can feel like every day is the same. When you're learning through self-education, you get the chance to learn something you’re interested in or something new that will help you achieve a new career goal or start a new business. This serves as a powerful reminder that learning is a lifelong process if you push yourself to grow and find more things you enjoy.

  • Challenging your ideas and beliefs — Continuous learning helps to challenge preconceived notions and helps you develop a deeper understanding of the experiences of other folks, especially those in marginalized communities that are not typically represented in traditional education curriculum. This increased empathy fosters a sense of allyship and a willingness to support others.

The Importance of Self-Evaluation Tools


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Self-evaluation tools play an important role in personal development and growth. They provide you with valuable insights into areas for improvement by assessing your behaviours and attitudes objectively, allowing for a deeper understanding of who you are, and ideally they provide a roadmap on how to improve in the area you wish to.


Allyship is Action


Allyship is a way of being and acting in your daily life, especially when you're in diverse groups of people like at work. It is an important part of self-evaluation because it nudges you to critically examine your beliefs and actions in the context of equity and inclusion in your communities. Acknowledging the importance of allyship in the workplace and your personal life lets you actively work to support and advocate for marginalized folks and ensure you're leaving your space better off than when you arrived.


The Ally Quiz - Value of Self-Assessment


Allyship is a journey that we are all on whether we know it or not. The Ally Quiz serves as a powerful tool to help you assess your current level of allyship and identify areas for growth. By understanding where you are, you can tailor your efforts more effectively, focusing on specific areas that need improvement and building upon your strengths.


Just like a coach helps athletes identify their strengths and weaknesses to enhance their performance, the Ally Quiz provides insights to help you navigate your allyship path with purpose. It empowers you to take targeted actions that align with your values and aspirations so you can make a greater impact.


Tracking Your Allyship Journey


Becoming a better ally is about being intentional and strategic in your allyship efforts rather than relying on guesswork or vague notions of support. You can accelerate your growth by equipping yourself with tools like the Ally Quiz where you explore thought-provoking questions and scenarios that guide you to reflect on your experiences, increase your knowledge of how to be a better ally and live the values that you really care about. 


Take the first step to self-evaluation with our Ally Quiz today! Know where you stand and embark on a personalized journey towards becoming more authentic to your Black and Brown colleagues, friends, and neighbours.

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